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With nothing for comparison, it's difficult to tell how big it is.
So, how big is it?
Also, you're on to something that it's young, but moreso that it just got uprooted, mailed, and repotted a few months ago. Even though it was likely dormant, it'll still have some stresses.
As to it being similar to others, remember that not all Sarrs are the same size, and those differences can also be shown in the flower size. I have a rubra and a cross that both have flowers about 8.5 inches tall, and my leuco AJ01 I got from Matt this year has a stalk that is almost 24 inches tall.

The ovary is 1/2 inch across? Or the umbrella is 1/2 inch across?

That's actually a decent size for an ovary, so I wouldn't worry about size.

Seeds, gray area. Plants, if shipping across state lines and they're paying for the plant or shipping, you'd probably need your own paperwork/authorization, not the one used to send it to you.If you're gifting it, they pay nothing, then no.